Interviews in Times Square NYC
This past week I had the privilege of spending the day in Times Square, New York City, where I was able to interview numerous people on the subject of rejection. Stan Doll and Austin Melendez...
View Article#081: Do You Talk Too Much or Not At All? [Podcast]
In today’s episode we want to ask the question, “Do you talk too much or not at all?” Relationships are all about communication, but if we’re talking too much, the other person has no place to connect...
View ArticleWhy We Lack True Spiritual Fathers
Thousands of years ago, the Apostle Paul observed an absence of spiritual fathers, yet we have the same gap facing us today. Thousands of teachers, instructors, lecturers and pontificators surround us....
View ArticleThe Relationship and Identity Destroyer: The Rejection Mindset
Experiencing rejection is incredibly painful. Yet there is nothing more deadly to relational health than when we carry a rejection mindset. Masses of people do not even realize they are infected with...
View ArticleThe Day I Saw the Rejection Mindset
During a personal awakening in my life, I was serving in a pastoral role at a fairly large church. I knew I was in desperate need for transformation, as my lack of peace was at an all time high. I also...
View ArticleThe Two Biggest Questions You Carry in Your Heart
Everyone is born with questions that need to be answered in a healthy manner. When these questions are not answered in a healthy and solid manner, a rejection mindset forms within us. These two...
View ArticleWhat is a Rejection Mindset?
Experiencing rejection is incredibly painful. Yet there is nothing more deadly to relational health carrying a rejection mindset. Masses of people do not realizing they are infected. Meanwhile, a it is...
View ArticleA Rejection Mindset from Conception
Rejection’s assignment is to cultivate a sense of separation from love and a true understanding of who you are. It’s a nasty enemy that often begin its operations at birth. It can begin at conception,...
View ArticleA Rejection Mindset in the Family Tree
Certain patterns run in families and a rejection mindset can certainly be one of them. Everything from personality traits, belief systems and behaviors can run in the family tree. These areas keep...
View Article7 Ways Your Mother Relationship Can Trigger a Rejection Mindset
I have spent years helping people to heal the father lens in their life, so that experiencing God as a Father can be embraced with greater clarity. Yet at the same time, there has been a wound that is...
View ArticleHow a Rejection Mindset Grips Our Teenagers
Adolescence is a critical season in every person’s life; a time of life where roots of rejection can too often get the upper hand. Even the most well developed teens can be hit with traumas and dramas...
View Article7 Ways A Rejection Mindset Adds Problems to Your Marriage
Marriage is God’s greatest place to initiate growth and transformation in us. It is also a target of attack, to divide and erode the potential that exists in the covenant. A rejection mindset can be...
View ArticleWhen You Experience Rejection in Friendship
The most shocking place that rejection can operate is in the arena where we least expect it, from our dear friends. It is in the closest friendships, where we often let our guard down the most and...
View ArticleHealing from Rejection in Ministry
Any form of a rejection mindset can limit our potential and leave us feeling stuck. But when experiences in ministry unleash rejection, the effects of it can seem nuclear. Rejection coming out of...
View Article8 Forms of Abuse that Fuel a Rejection Mindset
Quite often our most difficult wrestling matches with a rejection mindset can lead a trail back to abusive experiences in our life. Yet many who hear the word “abuse,” limit that definition to only a...
View Article7 Ways Rejection Distorts Our Workplace Experience
The rejection mindset manifests in the workplace like a plague, so it’s important that we develop a healthy lifestyle when it comes to our work. The Rejection Mindset in the Workplace We spend a large...
View ArticleExcessive Neediness that Destroys Relationships
Everyone is born with an inherent need to be noticed and valued for who they are. We long to be encouraged and nurtured into our fullest potential with encouragement and affirmation. When we are...
View ArticleHow a Rejection Mindset Twists Communication
The number one place relationships break down is in the health of communication=what we say, how we say it . . . what we hear and how we hear it. With every relationship problem, there is always a...
View ArticleHow a Rejection Mindset Distorts Your Sense of Love and Identity
A rejection mindset will seek to interfere with your ability to experience love and walk in the power of your identity. In this video, I explain how important love and identity are in your life, while...
View ArticleS05 Ep05: Are You in an Identity Crisis?
We need to address the identity crisis going on today, where people are manifesting many symptoms of losing who they are or never knowing who they are to begin with. Melissa and I both talk about 7...
View Article
